探戈銘言集(1)

「探戈是水平慾念的垂直表現」




「我將太陽穴靠在他的臉頰旁。那是一種溫柔的感覺。雖然環繞在我背後的手臂輕抱著我,但它有一種男性佔有的能量,好似在說:在這段3分鐘的舞蹈裡,妳完完全全屬於我。」
~Beatriz Dujovne, <In Strangers' Arms> p.80



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「無論是繪畫、音樂,或舞蹈,只要是能通過時間考驗的藝術,都有一種特質:它蘊藏人性的深度,而非只有美本身」

"Arts that stand the test of time, whether painting, music or dance, are those with inherent depth of humanity rather than just aestheticism."
摘自In Search of Tango網站


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要能走出「以自我為優先」的態度,需要我們先放鬆對伴侶的期望及要求,不只關心自己的安全與舒服,也擴大到對方的整體健康、並且敏銳於整體關係的需求。在關係裡,我們把自己的命運交出來,與對方一起運作我再也不是自己生命的唯一中心

"Going beyond a "me first" attitude involves relaxing the demands and expectations I place on my partner, expanding my concern for her well-being, and becoming more sensitive to the needs of the relationship as a whole, beyond what just feels personally safe and comfortable. In giving up territory and caring for my partner's well-being, I start to cast in my lot with her. I am no longer the sole center of my life."
~ <Journey of the Heart, Chapter 8, Conscious Commitment , P. 99>

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